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Friends in your life is like the chest without nipples - Pointless!
Friends are the siblings that god never gave us. They are the one who will laugh with you - not behind you, the one whom you can talk about anything, they are kind and respectful, they don't judge you, respect your boundaries, and blah! blah! blah!
You do not put 'Best' in front of your parents, sibling or relatives. Like seriously! I will not introduce my relatives like; Look he's my 'Best Relative' who provoked my 'Best Parents' against me.
Imagine this:- you're insisting on getting a cricket kit and want to make your passion your career.
My Best Father: Look Sharma Ji! My child was insisting on getting a cricket kit, so I'm thinking of getting it from him.
My Best Relative: Seriously, Chunni Lal Ji! Did you also say yes to this child's request. He's still young and does he understands the difference between right and wrong.
And Then,
My Best Father: Started to doubt his decision!
And even that's not enough, He still trying to manipulate your Best Father.
My Best Relative: My son is doing IIT, He'll help him.
My Best Father: Yes, Sharma Ji! You're absolutely right.
They will talk like your passion doesn't exist in this world. We'll discuss about passion in some other blog.
Anyways,
This will make you realize, Why only friends have 'Best' In front of them.
My Best Friend is Asu.
Just For Clarification
These are who friends are!
Now,
How To Make Friends?
Making a friend is like winning a lottery. You don't know anything about the other person. You just shoot an arrow in the dark, either you hit the target or you miss, and that's okay.
Communication is the first step to start a good friendship. But as an introvert this step is the hardest one for most of us. You can checkout this blog "How It Feels To Being An Introvert", Where I've detailed my experience. If any of you are Introverts, you might relate to it. Because I love when any of you comment :- Bhai! You've made such relatable blogs.
Communication can happen over the internet, it can be any online multiplayer game or any social media. To start a conversation - you have to establish a comfortable environment, keep a good eye not staring but a good eye contact and mention something that interests you.
Disclaimer:- Don't Be Like Ravi At All;
Ravi was kid who didn't like to meeting people. He just wanted to be like his self-created cool dude, Rocky Bhaiya.
Rocky Bhaiya, Whose attitude is right, chest is tight and he loves Bikes.
Rocky bhaiya could release the air from tires of moving bike and fill it with air from his mouth. There's a movie about Rocky Bhaiya, "Rocky Bhaiya Superstar", coming soon to theaters near you.
If someone asks me about my Interests, I answer them very straight forwardly like; Uumm! Sorry, I'm An Introvert..!
Conversation Ends...
You don't have to be Ravi. You have two ears and one mouth, So listen twice as much as you talk. It will make the other person feel valued and Important.
What Is Influencing?
Influencing doesn't mean you start playing flute like pied piper.
If I were to tell you to click on the link below;
Would You Click? No, Right!
I knew it, because I haven't tricked you into my influencing trap.
Anyway, Give it a try... It's free (The Link)
Influencing is an art which can affect peoples. It often involves an engaging narratives, presentations or persuasive arguments.
Basically, Influencing relies on your audience need - Motivation or Desires.
How To Influence People?
As, You read earlier - Influencing involves narratives, presentation and persuasive arguments.
Suppose:- If I told you, Today is 15th August The Independence Day Of India. On this particular day our India was declared Independence from British colonization, Since then it's been 77 years. in these 77 years India and It's people have changed a lot. I've post a dedicated blog featuring "Types Of People Of India" go check it out.
If you're true patriot you will click the link.
Influencing is not about manipulation but about inspiring others to willingly embrace your ideas and thoughts.
Let me give you some more examples...
Do you know how influencing inspiring people in their daily life?
1. In exams, always answer the best answer first, as it affects your scoring.
2. T.V ads never say "10% fat", but rather 90% fat free.
3. A mere presence of poster can affect movies Income.
4. Tired and exhausted people believe in commercials more.
5. If you to sell something create a psychological scarcity by some method.
6. You want to open a burger shop. Then it must not have pictures of yours burgers. Instead it should have pictures of people eating your delicious burgers. It increases sales by multiples (Domino Effect).
Here are some examples, You're smart enough to understand the rest!
Conclusion
Finally! At last, my favorite section.
So, Best friends are those people with whom you can share your sorrows and pain. But If you think they will sympathize with you after hearing your pains and sorrows. then you've misunderstood. Having a miss understanding doesn't mean they won't listen to you. They will listen very attentively so that no point is left for them to laugh. And If by mistake you share your most embarrassing thing with them, they won't forget it until the next life. I know you might feel like I'm insulting my friend a a lot. So let me tell you, everything written above is something heard or came up with.
Some Random Dude: Bro, you said you're an introvert, the first step is the hardest for you, so where does the best friend come in?
Asu: So what If I'm an introvert? Who knows that I've picked up the scenarios from different social platforms! No One Will Figure It Out.
Isn't it right!
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Bye!
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